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From Chaos to Calm: How I Transformed My Work Style and Elevated My Leadership

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There was a time in my life when chaos was my comfort zone. I thrived in the hustle—traveling all summer, working with coaches, planning expansions, and tightening up standard operating procedures. My team and I were creating our centers' playbook, working around the clock to achieve our goals. It felt good to stay busy, to be extra: extra committed, extra driven, extra everything.

But then, something shifted.

After weeks of non-stop travel, conferences, and opening a new center, I found myself in a season of pause. For the first time in a long time, I wasn’t grinding. Sure, I was still working on projects—like training for a half marathon, finishing SOPs, and planning the acquisition of a fourth center—but the energy was different. The chaos had settled, and I was left with something I wasn’t used to: calm.

At first, calm felt uncomfortable. I realized how much of my self-worth I had tied to being “extra.” If I wasn’t working 10 hours a day, pushing every boundary, or reading that extra chapter, was I really accomplishing anything? My default had always been to create “chaos work”—tasks that kept me busy but weren’t driving my business forward or serving my larger vision.

But here’s the breakthrough: calm isn’t the opposite of productivity. It’s the gateway to intentional, focused, meaningful work.


The Power of Working in Calm

Through reflection, I discovered that when I work in calm, I accomplish the right things. I focus on what moves my business forward—like creating systems that support growth, building stronger relationships, and making decisions from a place of clarity. Calm allows me to lead with purpose instead of running on fumes.

In chaos, I worked hard to feel accomplished. In calm, I work smart to make progress.

The difference is life-changing. And now, calm is my default.


Want to Make the Shift?

If you’ve ever felt stuck in the grind—creating work just to stay busy but not moving the needle—you’re not alone. The good news? You don’t have to stay there.

I’ve taken everything I’ve learned about moving from chaos to calm and turned it into a coaching experience designed for leaders like you. Whether you’re running a childcare center, managing a team, or building your business, I can help you transform your leadership style to achieve clarity, focus, and growth without burnout.


Here’s how we can work together:


  • Coaching & Conversation Membership

Join my weekly membership program for just $49/month. Every Wednesday, we meet for live coaching and conversations tailored to your needs. Can’t make it live? No problem—all sessions are recorded for you to watch on your schedule.

Click here to join now and start working smarter, not harder.

  • 12-Month 1:1 Intensive Coaching

Ready to take your leadership to the next level? My one-year intensive program is designed for leaders in early childhood education who want to elevate operations, enhance their leadership skills, and achieve substantial growth. This personalized experience will give you the tools, strategies, and mindset shifts you need to thrive.

Let’s talk about your goals—book your free discovery call here.


Your Future is Calm and Focused

Life doesn’t have to be chaotic to be successful. When you choose calm, you create space for clarity, intention, and growth. I’ve made the shift, and I know you can too. Let me help you build a life and business that feel as good as they look.

Let’s do this together.

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